Significant Other survey, Warning - it's long.

Your Relationship

The Basics
What is your name?
Christine

What is the love of your life's name?
Dan

How did you meet?
Well its a funny story actually, I was looking for the Psych department in college and I went to this one room it was like a study room in the middle of nowhere and he was sleeping on the chair there lol. So I guess you can say I woke him up lol and asked for directions and he was trying to explain to me, and I was just going ..''wtf' so he said why don't I just take you there. So he started talking to me and asking me things and I just felt this instant connection. Not to mention I thought he was cute. Then when he left I ran back to that area and introduced myself. Something I thought I'd never in a million years do. ^_^..

When did you meet?
college

What were your first thoughts?
He was really cute and I thought it was so brave of him, I'd never be able to just start talking randomly to someone I just met.

What/where was your first date?
Hong Kong lol.

How old were both of you?
I was 19 he was 20.

When did he/she meet your family?
I don't know the exact date but I remember being terrified.

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I just remember him being as always never scared.

What did your family think?
My mom the typical 'he no have car, no job' blah blah.
My dad didn't think he was bad but he reminded him of my ex. Tall, glasses, family close.

When did he/she meet your friends?
Dan met Kim within about 2 weeks of us meeting.

What did your friends think?
Well Kim thought was.. a little messed up on first glance but once she hung out with him

She saw that he was a normal guy.

Have you talked about marriage yet?
yes

What is the marriage verdict?
in time

Have you talked about kids yet?
lol yes again in time.

How long into the relationship was your first argument?
didn't take long, maybe 2 months?

What did you argue about?
Mostly him not calling me or e-mailing me.
Trying to contact me, While I was always trying to him,

I knew he still loved me because he wanted to see me,

He was just not used to having a girlfriend.

The fun stuff

Who flirted first?

Well I was the first one to introduce myself, but him he always walked me to my car before I left school and he went off with his mom and he would give me a hug everytime I was going to go. Which I thought was so strange first meeting him. I never get hugs from ANYONE.

How did you know he/she was into you?
Again the whole hugging thing and everytime he would see me he would jump up

like he was just so excited to see me. He had this big smile on his face.

Did he/she use a pick-up line? If so, what was it?
nope.

What is longest you have gone without seeing each other?
a week

Were you friends before dating?
for a couple of days lol.

Do you like the same sports teams?
ugh we hate sports.

When did you meet his/her friends?
I've met Dave, Josh, Cory but I have yet to meet Brian.

How do you feel about his/her friends?
They seem like nice people, I wonder how he can stand some of them sometimes but

they all mean well. lol

When you are both in the car, do you agree on the music?
It's usually my Ipod we're listening to because his has too much orchestral, so I'll try to put on something upbeat. He's not into slow music and cars I guess.

Did you get nervous before the first date?

of course..

The Hardships

Have you been through anything really tough together?
yeah

What?
Just all the arguments we've had.

Have you come close to breaking up?
good couple of times yeah.

Why?
Again just stupid crap.

Why did/do you feel it was/is important to work things out?
We love each other and we can't seem to see our lives without each other.
We've had too many good times together.

Has he/she seen you cry?
yes

Has he/she made you cry? How?
yes, just frustration.

Have you made him/her cry?
yeah =(.

Why?
I think I just stressed him out a lot with the arguments

and talk about if I may possibly die. I guess the thought makes him sad.

What do you do to fix problems in your relationship?

try to talk it out.

The Ummm.... Personal Stuff
Who held hands first?
it was kind of mutual.

What was the first kiss like? (on the cheek, the lips, etc.)

Well it was his first kiss so it was a bit awkward,

but just that feeling of being in love again and just knowing it was

his first kiss and him being so nervous.

and me kissing a totally different guy besides my ex.

Someone I was really falling for and I knew felt the same way,

It was better than my first kiss.

Who kissed who first?
It's so weird because it was something we both leaned into.

How did you feel after that first kiss?
Euphoric. Amazing, just feeling really warm and just good.

Who made the first "big" move?
o.0 im confused about this question.

I think it was again mutual.

How did you feel?
Im still confused.

How long into the relationship did you umm... do the "deed"?
lol um... 2 months?

Are things in the bedroom still 'hot'?
lol definetely.

Your Friends and Your Guy/Girl
Do any of your friends absolutely hate him/her?
nope

Why?
cause they love me and they will love anyone im with.

Do you go on group dates?
Well once to Lincoln Casino lol.

Does your guy/girl consider any of your friends to be his or hers?
not that I know of.

Do any of your friends talk bad about your partner to you?
no

How do you respond?
no need.

Does what your friends think affect your relationship?
not really, Im pretty content.

How much do you REALLY Know? (About your partner...)
Birthday?
August 5th

Parent's names?
Merry and David

Pet's Names?
Mischa, Lola, Bono, The Edge,

Favorite Food?
Pasta Bake, I believe.

Favorite Song?
God he has so many.
But The Fly - U2 I would guess.

Favorite color?
oh shit, um blue and green? lol.

Favorite Animal?
bunny?

Favorite TV Show?
Boston Legal, Whose Line is it anyway.

Favorite sports team?
haha sports suck.

Favorite Movie?
I don't think he has one..

Dream Car?
anything that drives.

Where was he/she born?
This one I have no idea.

Where did he/she grow up?
Massachusetts

Who is his/her best friend?
Dave, Josh, Cory. lol.

Worst Fear?
me dying? or being without me.

Biggest Celebrity crush?
Paul Dano LOL..

Pants size?
um ...

Shirt size?
L/XL

Shoe size?
12?

Some relationship randoms!

Do you share money? Checking account, savings, stock, etc.?
nope.

What was your first major purchase together?
um..coffee? lol.

Are you planning anything major right now?
nope just living life in the now.

What? (trips, marriage, family, buying a car together)
Nothing right now.

Is there anything you wish was different?
I wish I could see him more.

Would you have done anything differently up until now?
Probably fought less.

Do you see a real, successful future together?
I'd like to =).